So, what do you do when your five year-old is fixated on death?
Thing 2 has become obsessed with it from asking when people will die to creating elaborate stories about toys who have lost all of their families.
There have also been sleep and behavior regressions lately.
This started when my mother was ill and in the hospital. The girls wanted to see her and Aba and I responded that she wasn't well and we'd see her when she got better. Then Grandma was admitted to the hospital and we responded with , "Grandma's in the hospital and we'll see her when she's home." Then she wasn't up to company so we waited a bit to see her.
Then my step-father passed away and we went to his memorial.
We visited Grandma and spent four days with her and hope to visit again shortly. During that time we went to the zoo and on the way there I mentioned seeing the bench my aunt dedicated to my uncle's memory. "What?" Thing 2 asks. She then realizes that two people she knew had passed away.
Finally, we come home and Aba has a medical test that requires him to be under anesthisia.
Now she's creating stories where Lovable (her bunny) has lost all of her family in a fire and she (Lovable) wasn't able to save them. Or her horse is all alone because everyone in her family got sick and died.
So far we've just been listening and not making a big deal about it but I'm starting to wonder if we should be doing more.